Sunday, May 3, 2015

April 2015

April has been a super busy month filled with so much fun with friends and family and school events!
The school had a language arts fair. Andrew had to pick his favorite book, dress up as a character, design a poster board to put on display, write a summary of the book and describe his character out loud to any passersby that pushed his button on his poster.. He was Anakin from Star Wars. I was proud of him and nervous for him. He hasn't really done any public speaking up to this point, especially in front of adults but he did a great job!

Our first autism awareness day! We all dressed in blue! We also had lots of family and friends wear blue to show support as well. It was great!
 
Sam at the language arts fair made a book report/portfolio type booklet to put on display. He's quite artistic and creative.


I don't have a picture of what Luke did for the fair so I took a picture of him playing with his sweet little classmate while I checked out his playdoh sculptures and book report.

Sam's class also did a live recital of an entire Dr. Suess book which was super. They used lots of expression while presenting it. That's Sam's shy look. He tends to smirk like that when he catches his mom trying to take pictures of him!
 
We made a quick roadtrip to Coaldale for Easter weekend to catch up with family and friends.
Andrew and Noah

Isaac and cousin Brad.

Jessie and Emma.
hot tub party.

Just like old times Tracy and I got up early and did a couple runs together. Sure miss her!
 
Ken bought a new bike so we had a date night in Devon checking out a few trails.


Look out...old lady coming thru. Not nearly as adventurous as I used to be.

We watched this guy come out of the river and hang out for a bit.

Icebergs. We are a bit eager for Spring!
We finally bought a tramp. Takes up our whole green patch of grass but we are hoping it's a good investment and keeps the kids entertained.

All Done.

I took Emma along on one of Isaac's field trips. Bugs and Butterflies.

They actually held and patted a tarantula spider.
 
oops..."mommy there was sand in my boot."

" Emma turned three."

new dolly, stroller, books, a tutu were some of her gifts.

Emma..." Mommy it's my happy birthday and I'm ten."

Had some friends over for cake.

Our 11 annual girls shopping trip to Calgary. It was strange driving from Edmonton this year instead of from Coaldale.

Tuckered out!
Went for a family walk with Dwayne and Trixie and the kids to a local bird sanctuary.
I'm not sure how quiet we were.

 
Isaac's got it figured out!

Isaac also had a field trip to LZ trampoline, a huge trampoline gym. This is his buddy Luke from his class. The two of them together are hilarious.
 
Spring concert was fabulous!
 
 
We had a whirlwind visit from the Vanderheides for a quick overnight. The kids loved it and so did us adults. It was Paul's 39th b'day.


Paul being a kid still.
Paul in the lead on a skateboard and Isaac and Emma chasing him.

whew what a month of great memories....

Sunday, April 19, 2015

March Highlights

playdoh time with Daddy.
We started Waffle Wednesday.
Kids were quite excited about it.

I captured a few of Emma's moods this month. This is her saucy, grumpy look.
This is her "oh no I spilled paint all over mommy's floor" look.
We pulled the bikes out of the storage shed. Isaac, during walks always has to stop and check out the "waterfall".
Had a hockey morning and lunch with some friends one Saturday.




We had a playdate with Isaac's new BFF and his mommy. We went on the LRT.



I made a craft project. Earlier I had posted that Isaac sometimes says "I happy". He said it when I was waiting for his diagnosis from the Glenrose. It makes me happy when I hear him say it! I wanted to be reminded that he is a happy boy! Most of the time and that's all that matters.
Isaac had his first eye exam and did great. Border line needs glasses but we will re-evaluate in September.
He was such a big boy!
Cousin Brad, his wife Emma and Brad's son Shayden came to visit us one evening. It was so great to have a cousin over and to also meet the super important people in his life.
Mom and Dad also came for a few days so that we could get away on a get-away to Jasper. Trixie kept the two youngest and mom and dad had the other 3.

Uncle Dwayne likes to come by and relax and have a little snooze sometimes.
Massage anyone?
We decided to do a family LRT date over the break and a trip to the lego store.
Hang on.
Emma, Isaac and I did the escalator's a million tines while the older boys shopped for lego with Daddy.
Finally all the snow melted and Spring arrived. Back in the sandbox again!

Sunday, March 29, 2015

bilingual in speech and autism

So, a little story, that got me thinking about this post. My sister in law Trixie was over the other day when I got a call from one of "Isaac's people". I can't recall which one. I chatted with them on the phone for 5-10 minutes before I hung up, the whole time Trixie was listening. She piped up when I was done and said " I have no clue what you were talking about with that person...the SLP, and OT, and IPP meeting, Respite, Specialized services ...blah, blah, blah".

I hadn't even thought about how it would have sounded to someone else. This is kind of how I talk now, A LOT of the time. The more I thought about it the more I realized how much I have been learning in the past few months, and over the last few years with our other kids speech delays and now Isaac's diagnosis.  So the result is a list of words that I've been using in my everyday language now. Sometimes I talk like this and forget that not everyone speaks this language. As I made the list it was kind of neat seeing all the new knowledge I have taken in. For those of you that converse with me regularly feel free to stop me and ask me to explain what I am talking about or you could always refer to my list!

EI - early intervention program - a team that focus's on a child's strengths and teaching tactics and physical accommodations to address challenges at school.

IEP - individualized education program - used in schools with the child's support team

PUF - program unit funding - government provides school's with funding for your child based on their diagnosis. The funding is used for an aide for your child or other necessary materials to help your child learn, as well as services from an SLP, OT or other professionals that come into the school to work with your child and their aide and teacher.

IPP- individual program plan - this is a plan that the team of SLP,OT and teacher and aid come up with to track your child's progress. We typically have 3-4 of these each year for each of our children that received PUF - (it's a great tool for accountability and to track progress)

SLP - Speech Language Pathologist

OT - Occupational Therapist

EA - Educational Assistant

RESPITE - child care that is provided and paid for by FSCD. We qualified for 10hrs/month that's paid for. We also hire our own respite worker that can't be family and has to be 16 years or older.

ABA - applied behavior analysis - process of systematically intervening to increase likelihood of desired behaviors or skills and decrease likelihood of undesired behaviors.

INCLUSION - working together with school, community and neighborhood at including special needs kids into their local environment.

ASD - Autism Spectrum Disorders - a group of related brain-based disorders that affect a child's behavior, communication, and social skills. autistic disorder, Asperger syndrome and pervasive developmental disorder.

PDD - Pervasive developmental disorders - show some signs of autism or other PDD but don not have a sufficient number or intensity of symptoms to be diagnosed with AD or Asperger syndrome. fewer overall symptoms but the symptoms are still challenging.

PDD-NOS- pervasive developmental disorder- not otherwise specified

FINE MOTOR SKILLS  - coordinating small controlled movements - cutting, writing, drawing

GROSS MOTOR SKILLS - coordination - running/jumping etc.

HIGH FUNCTIONING - when their intelligence is in the normal range

LOW FUNCTIONING - when their intelligence is below the normal range

ASPERGER SYNDROME - intelligence is normal - may speak in an odd way, may speak in only one tone (monotone), may speak in language above what would be expected for their age like "little professors.", hard maintaining back and forth conversation, take things literally, problems with humor, teasing and figures of speech.

DEVELOPMENTAL DELAY - is what it says but can happen in various areas (speech, fine motor, gross motor etc.)

SPEECH DELAY - ummm delay in speech. With Sam and Luke it was problems with forming the words properly to say them correctly, Isaac was delayed in not really having very many words for his age.

EXPRESSIVE LANGUAGE - being able to put thoughts into words and sentences, in a way that makes sense and is grammatically accurate.

RECEPTIVE LANGUAGE - the ability to understand or comprehend language heard or read.

PEDIATRICIAN- a medical practitioner specializing in children and their diseases.

ENT - Ears , Nose Throat Specialist

AUDIOLOGIST - Ear doctor

PARROTING OR ECHOING - repeats what others say without understanding the meaning

ROTE -Rote learning is a memorization technique based on repetition. The idea is that one will be able to quickly recall the meaning of the material the more one repeats it.

SENSORY DISORDER - is a condition in which the brain has trouble receiving and responding to information that comes in through the senses.

REPETITIVE AND OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOURS - intrusive thoughts that produce uneasiness, apprehension, fear or worry (obsessions), repetitive behaviors aimed at reducing the associated anxiety (compulsions), or a combination of such obsessions and compulsions

ANXIETY DISORDER - is a serious mental illness. For people with anxiety disorders, worry and fear are constant and overwhelming, and can be crippling.

JOINT ATTENTION - looking back and forth between an object or event and another person and connecting with that person

NON-VERBAL - doesn't speak

REGRESS - lose skills and language they previously had

PSYCHOLOGISTS - study emotions, perception, intelligence, consciousness, and the relationship between these phenomena and processes and the work of the glands and muscles.

NEUROLOGISTS - brain doctors

PRAGMATIC LANGUAGE - social use of language

ARTICULATION - pronunciation

GENETIC TESTING - tests genetics in your family to connect dots or to find links.

MRI - magnetic resonance imaging (brain scan)

GI SYMPTOMS - gastrointestinal symptoms

TICS - involuntary brief motor movements or sounds

STUCK - a tendency to be "stuck" on certain behaviors and have problems with change

SELF - STIMULATION (repetitive behaviors) - examples are flapping their hands, ripping papers, toe-walking, basically behaviors that don't seem to have a purpose, but are often used to calm an asd child.

VERBAL APRAXIA (dyspraxia) - a neurologically based disorder that affects verbal speech

SOCIAL STORY - provide info about various social situations thru the use of pictures and text to prepare child before he encounters a similar setting

FBA - functional behavioral analysis - identifies events leading up to the behavior and the consequences that maintain it.

PECS - a non-verbal visual language system that uses photographs, lie drawings, and pictures to teach children

SENSORY INTEGRATION - difficulty processing info that comes in thru visual, hearing, and other sensory pathways at the same time.

SPECIALIZED SERVICES - an organization that you choose after being approved by FSCD to work with your child and your families needs. We will receive OT, SLP and behavioral therapy from the service provider we chose. They will come a few times a week to our home to work with Isaac and us.

FSCD - family support for children with disabilities

SOCIAL STORIES - a way to give your child information about a specific social situation using your own personalized stories.


The more I learn the language the more I also learn that there is an etiquette to speaking it as well. Some people are offended by the terms "high functioning" and "low functioning", some people do not like labels, some people refer to their ASD child as "my aspie" or my "non-verbal aspie".

Friends and family this is only an introduction to this complex disease. I'm sure I will be adding words to my vocabulary everyday!